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 Anthony Quinata is a full time, professional Psychic Medium currently residing in Denver, CO. He is available for private, phone, and family sessions. He has conducted readings for people all over the United States, as well as South America, Europe, and Asia.
In addition to private and phone sessions, Anthony conducts weekly small group sessions at Cornerstone Books in Englewood, and is available for seminars, and private group sessions as well. Please visit his website, www.anthonyquinata.com for more details.
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Medium Addiction
I was buying coffee today at one of my favorite coffee shops when Mary (not her real name), the store manager, said to me, “Okay, Anthony, here’s one for you. How do I get over a guy?” Then she said, "I guess you can't really answer that since it's not a "ghost" question."
Well, the truth is, as the old saying goes, "Not all psychics are mediums, but all mediums are psychic." Lately, I've been doing a lot of psychic readings so I decided to try to help her.
“How long have you two been separated?” I asked. Interestingly she thought I asked how long she’d been “suffering,” so she answered that question. I repeated what I originally asked her.
“Oh, about a year,” she said somewhat embarrassed.
“It’s been a while. Why can’t you seem to get over him?”
“Well, we still see each other every once in a while.”
“Then stop! Just tell him you can’t see him for a few months because you need the time to get over him.”
Mary laughed and said, “Thanks, Anthony. That was the perfect answer!”
The answer really came from doing discernments for years and realizing that no matter how long it’s been since someone we loved has passed away, we still want them to be around us. The various classes teaching people how to be “mediums” are based in large part on this idea. They teach people how to raise their intuition to sense to presence of loved ones who have passed away, recognize signs that they’re still around, and distinguish a “visitation” dream from a regular dream.
What typically happens though is that over a period of time sensing the presence becomes harder and harder to sense, signs are few and far between, and dream visitations become less and less.
For some people, when this happens the grieving process starts all over again. They need the dreams. They crave the signs. This is especially true for those people who are faced with a decision their loved one would usually make for them. They are hoping to hear directions on what they should do with their lives, or a situation they’re facing.
They come to Mediums such as myself who can help them reconnect with their loved ones they’ve lost. Thinking that we have a special “hot line” to those on the Other Side, they go from one medium to another to another. In other words, they become “Medium addicts.”
One way to make sure this doesn’t become a problem for you is to remember why they are no longer as “available” to you as they once were. They have to move on and learn the lessons that will allow them to progress in the spiritual realm they now live in.
Holding onto them, becoming reliant on them doesn’t help you move on, and it doesn’t help them move on. People see psychic mediums such as myself to learn that their loved ones are okay on the Other Side; that they’re still with us, and still love us, and know that we love them.
Those on the Other Side move their loved ones to see a psychic medium to let them know that they’re okay; they want you to know that they are still with you, still love you, and miss you. They also want you to heal as much as you can and move on with your life while living with your grief.
Allow your loved ones to move on, just as they’re allowing you to do the same. Of course, you want your loved ones around you forever, and they do check on you to see how things are going in your journey. Not only that, but if you call out to them, they’ll come running. As I’ve said before, they won’t give you directions, but they are always ready and willing to offer you guidance.
Sometimes that guidance involves leading you to a medium such as myself. They may do so even if you don’t believe that communicating with someone who has passed away is even possible. Keep this in mind while you’re looking for signs from above.
It’s easy to become addicted to Mediums because of our ability to communicate with those who have passed away. It’s just as easy to become addicted to Psychics because of our ability to help you with insight into your future. I know, because as someone who is both a medium and clairvoyant, I’ve come across a number of people who have become addicted to both mediums and psychics.
Whether you feel you need a loved one to help you with a decision or a psychic to help discern the path you should follow, keep in mind the answer is ultimately, and always, within YOU. Once your loved ones have assured you that they haven’t left you, often the message they give the second time around is, “Look with in you for the answer you’re looking for. It’s there!”
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